We all wish we could hit the mall and customize the perfect man. What does he look like? Tall and muscular? Short and thick? Is he totally suave, or a little awkward and goofy?
Introducing wikiHow’s Build-A-Man machine! Just tell us which physical traits and personality characteristics your Mr. Perfect has, and we’ll introduce you to a guy who must have stepped right out of your dreams.
Questions Overview
- We're both front row at a concert, and hit it off when we start singing every word together.
- He helps me study for a class, but eventually we catch feelings and do more flirting than studying.
- I meet him on vacation abroad, and my vacation turns into more of a permanent trip.
- We get into a fender bender. It's his fault, and I'm pretty annoyed. That is, until I realize he's pretty cute...
- He's a little alternative and edgy, but not over-the-top.
- He's a total sweetheart! Golden retriever energy.
- He's sort of serious and not super emotional, but he shows his love when it counts.
- He's super smart and confident, but also humble and kind.
- He's a ritzy businessman who's absolutely rolling in money.
- He does something dangerous but respected, like an EMT or firefighter.
- He works with his hands, like a carpenter or a construction worker.
- He's a creative intellectual, like a teacher or a researcher.
- He's a thrillseeker who does extreme sports while I cheer him on.
- He's a creative who loses himself in his art, until I come and pull him back out.
- He's into puzzles and strategy games. We play board games and video games together.
- He mostly travels the world (and takes me with him).
- He dresses super sharp in designer labels. Lots of tailored suits and nice sweaters.
- He's pretty casual, with lots of T-shirts, but everything hugs his body and fits him just right.
- He's definitely got his own unique, experimental taste. He'd be right at home on an avant-garde runway.
- He's super rugged. Flannels, work jeans, overalls, Carhartts, big boots. He's a working man, after all!
- He's a total player. Smooth and confident, but always respectful.
- He's a bit of a flirt, but in a goofy and charming way.
- He's sort of a dark horse. Romance isn't his thing until I come along.
- He's super awkward and super adorable.
- Full beard, but he keeps it trimmed and groomed.
- He's got that smoldering five o'clock shadow.
- He's got something interesting and dashing, like a mustache.
- He's totally clean-shaven and with a great jawline.
- Blue
- Brown
- Green
- Gray
- Black
- Red
- Blonde
- Brown
- Athletic
- Muscled
- Slim or average
- Chubby
- 6' or taller (Super tall)
- 5' 6" - 5' 11' (Tall-average)
- 5' 1" - 5' 5" (Tall-short)
- 5' or shorter (Short)
More Quizzes
What do people want in a man?
We all dream about meeting Mr. Right, right? But who is he, exactly? Someone who treats you well, is handsome, and has a little cash, probably, but that doesn’t give you much to go off of, does it? Everyone has their own vision for their perfect partner, and obviously everyone’s perfect man looks different from one person to the next.
Or does he? Turns out, there are some traits that most people agree on. Let’s take a look at what most people agree Prince Charming is like:
The most important physical features in a man, according to polls:
1. A good smile
2. Attractive eyes
3. Large hands
4. Short hair
5. A strong back
6. Strong arms
7. Facial hair
8. A good butt
9. Hairless chest
10. No facial hair
Interesting! Notice #7 and #10 are conflicting, which just goes to show that everyone really does want something different, even if a lot of people all want some of the same things. (In the same poll, long hair ranked #11, and a hairy chest ranked #12.)
Now what kind of personality traits does the perfect man have?
Most desirable personality traits, according to polls:
1. Humor
2. Intelligence
3. Honesty
4. Kindness
5. Good values
6. Communication
7. Dependability
8. (Looks)
9. (Facial attractiveness)
10. Ambition
Hear that, guys? Even in a poll where good looks were one of the choices for what women want in a guy, there were 7 non-physical characteristics that ranked above attractiveness. Maybe the secret to finding love is reading more books?
Want to learn more?
For more information about attraction and romance, check out these helpful resources:
- https://assets.ctfassets.net/juauvlea4rbf/1kmtOU2RRXrAB9Jz1JRmwe/20ee3375a5ba9f2d31fcbf9fb5a2e541/191105_Ideal_partner_survey.pdf
- https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/201806/15-things-women-want-from-the-men-in-their-lives
- https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2017/12/05/americans-see-different-expectations-for-men-and-women/